Month: November 2024

When she was little

At bed time when I was little,

I stood on his feet to brush my teeth.

When she was little,

she stood on my feet to brush her teeth.

Just now, her son who is little,

stood on my feet to brush his teeth.

When I was little we had pillow fights

When she was little we had pillow fights

With her son, we had a small pillow fight

I was read to,

I read to,

Tonight I read some of the same words again.

I fussed,

She fussed,

He fussed,

I fell, she fell, now he fell,

with her/his head on my shoulder,

to sleep.

I got kisses, she got kisses.

he got kisses.

Life goes on, and I am thrilled

to have been in all these parts

My mom would ask if I was asleep.

My wife would ask if they were asleep.

Now, his mother just called to see if he is asleep,

and if not to say goodnight.

Life goes on in a big circle

and I am thrilled to have played, to play my part.

© Words by Daniel DeMarle 11/22/24

Voyages

While we started from the same place,

the same house, the same roof

quickly we started off on our own journeys

time is a thief

every day a step

from cradle to grave

some of our journeys have been harder than others

some have gone through quiet dark passages

some have seemed to always travel in the light

time is a thief

every day is a step

from cradle to grave

now occasionally we land in the same harbors

for a few hours, maybe a few days

At other times we send messages from different lands

time is a thief

every step is a step closer

from cradle to grave

Now sometimes we seem at times more like strangers

but sometimes we still see each other through the old light

that came in from that kitchen window

time is a thief

sooner than later the first will take that first step

from cradle to grave

© words by Daniel DeMarle 11/19/24

Shopping list to protest safely

Here is your protest survival guide What to gather together and have readily available for protesting in the New Year.

A hard hat

Goggles/Safety glasses (to protect eyes from rubber bullets),

Very sturdy shoes

Face mask like in Covid (to help with tear gas)

Multiple umbrellas (helpful for rubber bullets but expect to lose one per protest)

Thick shirts hoodies preferred (Long sleeve hoodie to protect from bruises from rubber bullets)

Jeans

Gloves

Throw away phones

Ear protection (they use a very loud noise machine like one that should be illegal)

First aid kit

Water (to wash out eyes from tear gas)

Backpack

Friends to go with

Phone number of ACLU

If you can preferably bike to the protest site, to prevent license plate readers also try to bike on routes without many ring cameras.

© Words by Daniel DeMarle 11/11/2024

Upset about the election – A fundamental difference and a way to think about our current politics

If there is a fire most of us wait for the firefighters to come, and when they do, their first job is to save the people, even if that means the house and sometimes a neighbor’s house burns down, while they save that person. That is what elections are. Us waiting for someone else to do something and then focusing on the need to save a life, while not focusing on the house/s. That path, focusing on this or that before the bigger more important thing, makes us easy to manipulate. Because so far, reading this you are like what, of course, you save the person first you idiot!! This means, however that when you give Americans something to fear or hate (even a small thing, like one life or one offense), and they will cut off their own noses to avoid or kill whatever it is.

That is the fundamental difference between how a civilian reacts and how a Navy submariner acts. If there is a fire on a sub and a crew mate (maybe your best friend) is on fire, your first job is to put out the fire not to save your crew mate. After you put out the fire you can help them, because in the time you spend saving them, you could lose the sub, and everyone on it. But that is not all of it! If you lose your ship, you will not be there to defend the country. If your ship is on fire, and you need to let it burn/blow up/sink/be crushed in the ocean depths, so the ship is lost, which means you and everyone in it dies, you do that. If defending our Country requires that to happen.

On a US Navy sub, it’s simple. Country comes first, the Constitution comes second, the Ship comes third, and your shipmates/Seamen come last. There are many Navy seaman and officers out there right now, as you read this, at sea knowing, if need be, they will sacrifice their sub and their lives to protect the country because protecting the country protects their loved ones and all of us.

Today that thought in the civilian population is unknown. Try to find a national politician today who actually puts the needs of the Country before the needs of themselves or their party. It has not always been like that. During the Great Wars (I and II), the country pulled together for years and put Country above all else. Not today, we are very, very divided.

Which brings us to this last election. In this last election, one candidate talked about “bringing us together” and the other talked about the “enemy within” and worked hard to separate us.

When you hear those things, remember the Navy seaman and officers out there putting Country above all else. Yes. we can argue and should argue and debate at times vociferously about ideas, policies, laws, and rights BUT at the end of the day, when you get hot and heated and want to cut someone off, take out some American currency and look at it. Look at those words “E pluribus unum” and remember what they mean, “Out of many one!” Putting the needs of the first thirteen colonies below the needs of the Country. We are best when we focus on “one” the Country! Long before we consider what is best for yourself or your party. So, going forward keep some coins in your pocket. Just like a lucky token/good luck charm/prayer bead/rosary/amulet/talisman and when you get ready to scream, cry, punch someone just ask yourself is me working to demonize another/spread fear and hate, helping our Country? Then rub that coin and rejoin in respectful listening and conversation. Do not stop, and never stop fighting for what you believe is best for this country, but don’t fight to tear it apart.

“In the United States Navy, the hierarchy of loyalty and duty is clear:

  1. Country: Above all, service members are sworn to defend the United States and its citizens.
  2. Constitution: They take an oath to support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic.
  3. Ship: Duty to one’s ship and mission follows, ensuring that the vessel is always ready and capable of fulfilling its role.
  4. Shipmates/Seamen: Finally, they are committed to the welfare and success of their fellow sailors, working together to achieve their objectives.

This order ensures that the broader principles and commitments are upheld before focusing on more specific responsibilities.”

By the way, “E pluribus unum” has 13 letters – 13 colonies, now you know.

© words and pictures by Dan DeMarle 11/7/2024