Thoughts from biking and walking in Scotland July-August 2015

Part 6

Go faster, go faster. It seems our lives our filled with a need for speed. Faster bandwidth, more megabytes.  Pushtheenvelope. Don’tstoptotakethetimetopunctuate

Looking out the window while driving, we think we see so much

but actually, see so little.

Biking the world slows down, and we begin  to   take   in    more.

Walking,

with eyes open,

is how

we were designed to see.

Stopping,

standing,

breathing

we can be most open to the world

What do we actually have after all?

The space to be in, in the world.

To see life,

growing in the wind, near the shore.

Flowers on road

Flowers blowing in the wind from the coast,along the road from the ferry at Kilchoan to the town of Salen. Scotland.

Now breathe

 

 

© Dan DeMarle – photo taken by Dan DeMarle 2015

Thoughts from biking and walking in Scotland July-August 2015

Part 5

I used to think riding was about being first, about being the strongest,

about being the best.

Then I thought it was about staying near the front,

about not losing face.

Some think if you can’t be first – then don’t ride at all.

Now, I realize that really, all along,

its been about who are you riding along this road with.

Who will be with you,

there,

at the end of this ride we call life.

 

© Dan DeMarle – photo taken by Dan DeMarle 2015

Graveyard in Scotland

Old Graveyard along the road from Bankfort to Methven in Scotland

Scottish Cathedral

Dunkirk Cathedral in Dunkirk Scotland. The Cathedral is still in use, although part of it is being stabilized.

Things my mother knew

My mother knew many things, I do not.
How long to wait between one canning to the next
If you rush you have broken jars.
Jars containing summer fruit at the peak of its ripeness.

My mother knew about dealing with ripe teenagers
How to handle, cajole, discipline, encourage, and love
Having eight she had lots of practice.
Practice largely mostly but not always came with patience.

My mother knew about patience, however.
She knew when to swoop in to prevent a disaster
She also knew how to stay back patiently
While her children adventured outward to far away places.

My mother knew about far away places.
She traveled to some, but she read all those books
How many times did she travel with Alice to Wonderland
While her children wiggled and squirmed trying to chase that White Rabbit

My mother knew about raising and killing rabbits
She also knew how to cook them and roast them
Much to our dismay
I would however, gladly sit and eat rabbit again with my mother.

Fiddle, Faddle, and Foe

Fiddle and Faddle made a great sound.

Stomping loudly around the wood

Fiddle said “Let’s find Foe and knock him down.”

Faddle said “Oh wait my friend, I lost my hood.”

Fiddle said “Lets search the town!”

 

The two friends tromped and rambled around

Till the sun wandered low

Fiddle said “I’m getting tired”

Faddle said “My legs are sore and moving slow.”

Fiddle said “Lets home to bed and have a fire.”

 

So that was the day for Fiddle and Faddle

Two best of buds now safely tucked into bed

But what is that “Where was foe?”

Not every story must lead to tears being shed.

Foe stayed home that day making wine and baking dough.

Canning time

The water boils as I skin tomato,

after tomato, after tomato, after…

Some from the garden, some from the market

All of last year’s harvest long since canned and sealed away.

Only one jar remains, yet to be eaten.

This year’s canning has begun, the tomatoes,

gathered, many fallen in the fields,

fallen by blight before their time,

bleed into the jars,

their peeled skins tossed into the compost bag,

to be carried out, to help nurture future garden plots.

The fallen giving new life to future family needs.

 

The new jars sterile and clean, wait for the bodies.

They start empty, then line up with the collected remains,

a little Arlington on my kitchen counter.

Each ripe tomato having given its youth in the full service of …

The summer

 

Summers ending is not yet, but yet the fall begins.

When I was little, we would play, while,

Grandma, my mother and aunt would work,

in my grandmother’s A plus, all purpose basement.

Busy times, with food cooking upstairs in the kitchen,

and busy canning in the basement.

They worked together side by side,

filling canning jars together in a communal effort.

Did it bind us together? Did it do more than nurture our bodies?

Did that communal time of family conversation, bind us together as souls.

Souls gathered together at the edge of Fall, waiting for..

Waiting for the death that comes with winter?

Waiting together for the new birth that comes with Spring?

 

Its canning time, but where are my siblings and cousins?

Its canning time, but where is the community?

That community that used to work to sow, and harvest and prepare.

Prepare for the cold hard days that winter would and will bring.

If little boy blue were to blow his horn?

Would all the king’s horses and all the king’s men,

Rush back together to bring them all home?

Has fall and winter changed so much, or,

is it that today, that fruit from distant corners of the world,

has replaced those family ties,

replaced it with their genetically engineered sweetness, and..

and the illusion that the seasons do not matter.

That winter can be staved off, and that winter..

Winter is just a dusting of snow.

 

So blow your horn little boy blue.

And if they come.

If they come.

I will serve them gazpacho, while we peel, and can,

Bathe, peel, salt, and can.

and wait,

and wait,

for that soft sound that tells us an eternal bond has been sealed.

 

© Dan DeMarle 2014 – © photo taken by Dan DeMarle 2016

 

Winter evenings past and present

I exhale when the cold air hits my face.

My breath hangs in the winter air.

Far away I hear my brother and sisters

Far away I hear their skates slide on ice.

At the moment, I walk

My father holds my mittened hand

My ankles wobble, in my sisters’ pass me down skates.

My mother waits with a fire and cocoa by the pond

I look up and see the stars

I look up and see my father

Tall and strong, a smile on his face.

We walk hand in hand into the cold night air

 

Forty six years later

Another winter night.

My brothers and sisters and I sit by a bed.

My father is traveling through a winter land

Somewhere close by

I know my mother sits waiting for him by a fire that I can not see.

Outside I look up and see the stars