Facebook, Christmas, and Privacy

Don’t read this, as it may apply to you and make you upset or mad. For everyone who posted Christmas Day pictures of your children in PJ’s opening presents. What were you thinking? You do no know that privacy is a huge issue on the internet?  You  just told, the Russian hackers, the Chinese hackers,  the NSA, that 300 pound guy Trump says is hacking the internet from his bedroom, and anybody else with data mining tools, all kinds of very useful information, about you, your spouse, your kids, and grandma if she was there.  You also gave data miners, and big business all kinds of information that they can use as well.  You told them in that picture what Santa bought for those kids, and if the picture was clear enough, or could be made clear enough what models you spent money on.  With facial recognition software they can tell who you were with.  Of course maybe you tagged them, so they don’t have to bother.  You also told any neighborhood burglars about your child’s neat toys, and or about your new expensive toys. All the better to target you.  If someone asked you in a survey to provide all that information you would say “F… You!” but you just gave it all away.

For parents of teenagers, you told the mean girls and school, and those jerk boys, what your son or daughter got for the Holiday.  You also posted for those bullies pictures of your teenagers in their pajamas.   Now those mean girls and jerk boys aren’t the only problem.  Now again, what were you thinking, posting pictures of your kids in their pajamas.  I don’t think so, but maybe some perverted internet pedophile troll thinks your preteen or teenage son or daughter looks good in those pjs.  You do know that people buy and sell those pictures and then hunt down particularly “cute” kids.   Really?  Really, they are sick and disgusting people, but they are out there.

Lastly, pictures on the internet live forever.  I know my parents took embarrassing pictures of me as a child opening presents.  They live, however,  in actual photo albums not on the internet. Plus at this point in my adult life, if one of my siblings posts those pictures, I don’t need to worry about a future employer wanting to see those pictures.  However, when your child applies for jobs in the future, or college, then a good data miner will be able to pull them up.

Now maybe you think, hey facial recognition software isn’t that good.  It’s getting there, but even if it isn’t right now, it will be 5 years from now, and those pictures will still be on Facebook, popping up in your year in review. So your an adult, you can give away any information you want about yourself.  Your a parent, you can post pictures of your kids.  However, in the future, they may totally wish you had not posted that picture.  That may even be next week when they are back in school.

Depew and Forbes Little Free Library

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As some of you know Rosalind Walker, installed a little free library on the corner of Depew and Forbes this summer. I finally had a chance today to go and see the spot. Immediately I made the connection. In 2012 this location was a fire damaged property that had metal fencing all over the porch. This was because two poor dogs had been left to “patrol” the inside of the house with no heat and no front door. It was a disaster. Thanks to this group, in part, pressure was put on the City to do something about this house, as it was bringing down that section of the neighborhood. Time passed, and the house was then torn down. I have attached the picture of what now stands in its location. So with community involvement, and work of lots of people including Rosalind Walker and many other neighbors this location is now no longer a blight on a neighborhood, but now a bright spot in a neighborhood. Literally with the community garden beds in the lot, it is now growing a better community.

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12/26/16

© words and pictures by Dan DeMarle 2016

Impossible

There are things that are impossible, because they violate the basic laws of reality.

There are things that are impossible now, but will not be impossible in 20 years.

There are things that are impossible now, but will be possible next year, in time for the Holiday season.

There are things that are impossible, because in three dimensional space its putting a round peg in a square hole, but add in time,  shapes change and they fit.

There are things that are impossible, because you are dealing with a big bureaucracy, that in a different country would be done on a daily basis.

There are things that are impossible, because your health insurance, or school district does not want to pay for them.

There are things that are impossible, only because no-one put the infrastructure in place 5 years ago.

There are things that are impossible, only because people don’t care enough to make them possible.

There are things that are impossible, only because people are to distracted, to know they are totally possible in other places in the world, where people are not so distracted.

There are things that are impossible, only because they require to much work and effort.

There are things that are impossible, only because that’s not the  way we do that here.

There are things that are impossible,  only because no-one else has thought to try them.

There are things that are impossible, because collective wisdom says its can’t be done.

So impossible is a reality and a mindset. often confused with improbable or inconceivable.

As Alan Moore pointed out the chance that the genetic material from millions of pairings of chromosomes since man and his predecessors began on earth, would combine over time to create you, would be totally impossible to create,  but here you are, reading this.  You are an impossibility, or from a religious point of view, your simple existence is a miracle!   There are so many chance factors that could have prevented you from being here, so many miracles that had to happen to get your parents to meet, fall in love, have sex, fertilize an egg, successfully give birth, and to pass on the unique combination of DNA to make you, and not some other you.  If they met a month later, a different egg, a different set of sperm, and you would not be here.  Then to get both of their parents to do the same, and their parents, and their parents, and their parents. At that level you have 64 unique individuals all meeting and doing the same thing, at just the right time and place. One missed pair, and you would not be here, one different pairing of chromosomes (different egg or sperm), and you would be a different person.   Then their parents, and their parents, and their parents…… To create all the unique things that had to happen to make you, would be like tossing a coin 10 million times and each time landing on heads, except for the 999,999,999 times would have to be tails.

So the next time someone tells you, your dream, your wish, your desire, is impossible.

The next time someone tells you one person can’t change the world, and make it a better place.

The next time someone tells you stopping a war, fighting climate change, ending racism, ending misogyny, ending domestic violence, and/or space colonization is impossible.

The next time someone tells you,what you want to do is impossible, unless it falls under the very first sentence in this post, then they are wrong.

Just remember your basic existence is an impossibility made real.

Penguin

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One of the things I enjoy is simply taking photographs of the things I find. In this case when the drive was plowed it threw up this chunk of snow, and gravel and dirt. Then from the right angle you have a penguin.

12-24-16

© Words and pictures by Dan DeMarle 2016