In my day to day work life, families come into me to speak of their worries and fears about their children, whether these are children, teens, or young adults, or adults.  I can tell you with absolute certainty that the rich white mother, the poor white mother, the mom and dad, the two dads, the two moms, the grandmother raising her grandchild, the mom who was a teen mother, the divorced mother, the happily married mother, the older mother, the never married mother, the Black mother, the mother or an adopted child, the Hispanic mother, the Asian mother, the Biracial mother, the mother serving in the military, the employed mother, the unemployed mother, the homeless mother, the professional mother, the city mother,  the suburban mother, and the rural mother, all have the same fears. They also all have the same tears.  They all have the same battles, the same worries, and many of the same problems. So what exactly is it that we let divide us.